I love this person and there was a fall out, we are trying to propose the vision for this friendship

Keywords: personal development

It is my habit to play out the end game of a scenario and I have played out the end game in different ways in my head and I’m prepared to face it with peace. I have been thinking with myself, what I need to build this true friendship. I have never built a friendship intentionally, almost all my friendships happened naturally, it is not that this love and laughter did not start off as natural but it has been infected. I’m valuing meaningful friendships as I grow older and it is because I know that to reignite something you must build. This person taught me the importance of values and I intend to structure life around it.

https://thesunflowerreeder.wordpress.com/2021/06/02/starting-off-as-friends-again
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I know this is going to upset you but …

Keywords: caring , emotional , relationships , respect , self care

For those of you in relationships think about how you speak to each other and how you communicate. Are you putting their needs first like they do with you. Are you really caring about their feelings like you say or just Brushing it off because it’s not affecting you. For those of you who are single. Stop taking this behaviour from people as it really isn’t acceptable. They either care or they don’t. Walk away as you deserve more! I think these days people seem to accept their partners being nasty but seriously you shouldn’t be taking it.

https://httpspms.net/2021/05/28/what-to-do-when-your-feelings-dont-matter-to-someone

Why did you not love me the way I deserved to be loved?

Keywords: break ups , hurt , love , pain

After so many years, I decided to wake up from this daze called love, or if it was really love. I decided to take a stand and walk out. I can’t forget everything I’ve been through and though it pains me to leave, I know I had to. I wasn’t loved the way I was supposed to. I wasn’t cared for the way I wanted. I was not respected the way I deserved. Every day I wonder did I make the right decision but the universe as a way to right it’s wrongs. It reminds me everyday that I did the right thing. It shows me and tells me that you see, he didn’t deserve you. All that love gone to waste but don’t fear my child, I got you.

https://lotusfuly.home.blog/2019/01/24/when-it-all-fell-apart

Honor those relationships [with the people I cared most about] with respect, honesty, loyalty, trustworthiness

Keywords: recovery , anorexia , bible , catholic , christianity , eating disorder , faith , family , fitness , god , jesus , life , love , mental health

And admitting wrongs and making amends when we fall short and hurt those people in ways big or small, no matter how humbling that may be.

https://beautybeyondbones.com/2020/09/28/making-amends

RED FLAGS IN RELATIONSHIPS

attitude, online dating, relationships, trust

Vdina's Thoughts

WHEN AND HOW SHOULD THEY BE NOTICED?

Everybody talks about red flags but the rising rate of broken relationships and marriages shows that nobody looks out for them. So the question is when and how should red flags be noticed? Before recognizing red flags, you should work on yourself first, get to know your likes and turnoffs, honestly itemize your strengths, weaknesses and bad habits. Work on your attitude and behavioral patterns, improve your relationships with people, control your emotions; stop deceiving yourself by saying I’m keeping it real NO! keeping it real does not mean you should let your emotions control your actions and speech like a raging bull out of control.

When you have properly worked on yourself, then you would have to itemize your red flags; that is signs that the individual would not be a good match for you. When doing this you would have to…

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