Category: opinions

As I write this, I still have that glimmer of hope

Keywords: Playlist , Dear M , Already Gone , Kelly Clarkson

I still love you. I love you enough to not want to hurt you more than I have to. I’d rather have you think of me as a villain, as a dodged bullet. At this moment, I want you to hate me so much, because even though I know it’ll probably hurt you to not have me in your life anymore, thinking of me as evil will make it easier for you to move on. Hate comes easy. Hate is simple. You’ll hate me, you’ll learn your lessons, and you’ll get on with your life.

https://xgetsoverherex.wordpress.com/2022/02/23/2022-02-23-i-want-to-make-you-hate-me-because-hope-is-taunting
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I always tried to look at life in a way that if we had a bond previously, then I want to cherish that regardless of how it turned out

Keywords: blog , guidance , reflection , life advice , relationships , friendships , reaching out , unlocking the door , boundaries , expectations

Remember that although history does shape us, our future does too. We can learn from our mistakes, but if we keep turning our head to the past we’ll miss what’s right in front of us. Here’s to forgiveness, growth, and being that person who reaches out. Remember to form boundaries, not walls; time is relative; and there are always exceptions.

https://sandrascenarios.com/2022/09/25/unlocking-the-door

A lot of the inner turmoil for me occurs when I think that what I want is going against what somebody else wants, or even what somebody else wants for me

Keywords: desire , podcasts , self-acceptance , selflove , women

This other thing i’ve been struggling with is sharing about my new project with my family and friends. I so want to tell them, so that I can celebrate with them and share my happiness and excitement with them, but I’m scared that their opinions or “feedback” or suggestions will get in the way of my creative process and doing what I really want to do — the thought in my head of “what will ______ say?” Stops me from living my authentic truth, unapologetically, because what if someone doesn’t love or accept me for it?

https://thefemininewriter.wordpress.com/2021/06/08/desire-desire

I know this is going to upset you but …

Keywords: caring , emotional , relationships , respect , self care

For those of you in relationships think about how you speak to each other and how you communicate. Are you putting their needs first like they do with you. Are you really caring about their feelings like you say or just Brushing it off because it’s not affecting you. For those of you who are single. Stop taking this behaviour from people as it really isn’t acceptable. They either care or they don’t. Walk away as you deserve more! I think these days people seem to accept their partners being nasty but seriously you shouldn’t be taking it.

https://httpspms.net/2021/05/28/what-to-do-when-your-feelings-dont-matter-to-someone