Tag: break up

As I write this, I still have that glimmer of hope

Keywords: Playlist , Dear M , Already Gone , Kelly Clarkson

I still love you. I love you enough to not want to hurt you more than I have to. I’d rather have you think of me as a villain, as a dodged bullet. At this moment, I want you to hate me so much, because even though I know it’ll probably hurt you to not have me in your life anymore, thinking of me as evil will make it easier for you to move on. Hate comes easy. Hate is simple. You’ll hate me, you’ll learn your lessons, and you’ll get on with your life.

https://xgetsoverherex.wordpress.com/2022/02/23/2022-02-23-i-want-to-make-you-hate-me-because-hope-is-taunting
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Why did you not love me the way I deserved to be loved?

Keywords: break ups , hurt , love , pain

After so many years, I decided to wake up from this daze called love, or if it was really love. I decided to take a stand and walk out. I can’t forget everything I’ve been through and though it pains me to leave, I know I had to. I wasn’t loved the way I was supposed to. I wasn’t cared for the way I wanted. I was not respected the way I deserved. Every day I wonder did I make the right decision but the universe as a way to right it’s wrongs. It reminds me everyday that I did the right thing. It shows me and tells me that you see, he didn’t deserve you. All that love gone to waste but don’t fear my child, I got you.

https://lotusfuly.home.blog/2019/01/24/when-it-all-fell-apart

It’s a red flag for me when someone is not inclined to maintain relationships with their former lovers

Keywords: philosophy , breaking up , ethical non monogamy , exes , friendship , polyamory , relationship anarchy , relationships , transition

It certainly doesn’t bode well for us, considering that most romantic/sexual relationships end.

https://polywithabigheart.com/2020/08/03/friends-with-my-exes