I was advised NOT to be in a romantic relationship for at LEAST a year into recovery

Keywords: recovery , anorexia , bible , catholic , christianity , faith , family , fitness , god , healing , jesus , life , love , prayer

I finally understand now, why. Because I had to have a total and complete control over taking care of myself, my needs, my recovery, my self worth. I needed to be airtight, steady, totally and completely bulletproof to any lingering “ED issues” before I could invite someone else into my heart and relinquish control over many of those emotional areas.

https://beautybeyondbones.com/2021/03/25/making-room-in-my-heart-for-love

In real life there’s no narrator in the background telling us what the other person is thinking, or what our next move should be

Keywords: anger , argue , argument , audience , bollywood , confrontation , emotion , emotional , family , film , friends , friendship , frustration , hollywood , life , listen , love , movies , negative , negativity , people , positive , relationships

I guess what I’m trying to say is, let’s just stick to watching movies as a means of escapism…nothing more!

https://sauj4.com/2020/05/11/confrontation-in-real-life-isnt-like-the-movies

RED FLAGS IN RELATIONSHIPS

attitude, online dating, relationships, trust

Vdina's Thoughts

WHEN AND HOW SHOULD THEY BE NOTICED?

Everybody talks about red flags but the rising rate of broken relationships and marriages shows that nobody looks out for them. So the question is when and how should red flags be noticed? Before recognizing red flags, you should work on yourself first, get to know your likes and turnoffs, honestly itemize your strengths, weaknesses and bad habits. Work on your attitude and behavioral patterns, improve your relationships with people, control your emotions; stop deceiving yourself by saying I’m keeping it real NO! keeping it real does not mean you should let your emotions control your actions and speech like a raging bull out of control.

When you have properly worked on yourself, then you would have to itemize your red flags; that is signs that the individual would not be a good match for you. When doing this you would have to…

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