Category: dating

There’s something so satisfying about watching my past go up in ashes and smoke

Keywords: blog , ghosting , haunting , life , mental health , moving on , relationships

I’m not sure if I’m the only one, but I have this thing that if I know there are traces of someone who is no longer in my life sprinkled around my personal space – even if these things are hidden out of sight – I pick up on that energy & it’s unsettling for me. It feels as though I haven’t fully let go of someone even if I’m past the point of moving on. So, my solution was to put all of these mementos in box or bag, wait for the perfect evening for a bonfire, and burn it all!

https://kaitlynalexiso.wordpress.com/2024/10/18/ghosting-other-spooky-stuff

image source: https://kaitlynalexiso.wordpress.com/2024/10/18/livin-life-having-a-gourd-time

I’ve come to realize that being single is not a reflection of my worth or desirability

Keywords: love and relationship , falling, in, love , love, blogs , love, quotes , love, stories , relationship, advice

I can’t help but wonder if there’s something I’m doing wrong or if there’s something about me that’s just not clicking with potential partners. Maybe I’m too picky or maybe I’m not putting myself in the right situations. It’s hard not to overanalyze and question every decision I’ve made in my love life.

https://annkiki.wordpress.com/2024/05/21/why-am-i-still-single

It’s a red flag for me when someone is not inclined to maintain relationships with their former lovers

Keywords: philosophy , breaking up , ethical non monogamy , exes , friendship , polyamory , relationship anarchy , relationships , transition

It certainly doesn’t bode well for us, considering that most romantic/sexual relationships end.

https://polywithabigheart.com/2020/08/03/friends-with-my-exes

Allow yourselves to be a part of each other’s lives and lifestyles because nothing matters more than understanding someone’s way of life because that can either make you or break you as partners

I don’t believe that males and females can be just friends without something having been there or someone wishing circumstances were different and I always tell this to my boyfriend I am very uncomfortable with him having a deeper understanding and connection with his female friends then that he has or could ever develop for me. Now I cannot say society has influenced this feeling/decision but it has been experiences and that for me is an opinion that no one can change and one that I influence upon society because of the lack of mental and emotional relationships between partners.

https://yougottacrawlfirst.wordpress.com/2020/07/05/mental-connections-vs-societys-influence